Six E's of a RELATIONSHIP

While walking across the road towards the train station, my mind travels into contemplating the concerns on RELATIONSHIP. What is relationship? How does it affect one's life? In this blog, relationship is referred to a boy-girl thing. Others perceive that relationship can either build or break you. In the positive side, it creates an atmosphere of ENCOURAGEMENT as the couple shares views on life and enjoys them in the intimacy of togetherness. As days go by, relationship enhances life's EXPERIENCE. Certainly this aspect enables one to be more resilient to life's situations considering the various experiences encountered. This relationship thing also makes the couple EVOLVE in various aspects of life. As person changes from worst to better , it is one thing worth living for especially so that each one seeks sensible improvement in his/her life. At the outset of this stuff are the impending immediate concerns which depicts relationship as EMOTIONAL, EROTIC and EXPENSIVE. When the boy or girl is too emotional in their relationship to the point that feelings supersede reasoning, certainly problems occur. One has to mix properly the ingredients of relationship to end up a good one. Needless to say, relationship is also EROTIC. Erotic love is a type of love towards opposite sex. Unfortunately, nowadays most couples are trapped into the so called "pre-marital" sex which is obviously pioneered by a western culture. In Australia alone, teenagers reaching 18 can live independently with the support of the government thus most of them ended up an intimate erotic relationship with their partners under a "live in" lifestyle mode. As a result it becomes a usual thing then to have a kind of life like this. This, I strongly disagree since moral issues are at stake in this practice which obviously defies God's sanctity of sex and marriage. Lastly , a relationship requires money thus it becomes EXPENSIVE. Nothing in this world is free, thus a considerable amount is spent for upholding a relationship. For those who have meager income or even no job at all, they will surely be in trouble on this regard :)

Citing the pros and cons of a RELATIONSHIP is for one to regard considerably in his view of living. As each one is given by God the ability to think and feel , it is just a challenging task for all concern to weigh things in accordance to his convictions or standards of living. But one thing is sure that personal convictions are oftentimes biased thus there is a need to hinge one's perspectives with a certain norm believed to be the truth.